Joseph N. Ermer
December 26, 1918 – March 28, 2012
Joseph Nicholas Ermer was born on December 26, 1918, in Brooklyn, N.Y., to Joseph and Christine (Karstens) Ermer, the parents of both Joe and his brother Robert "Bob" Ermer.
Like many children growing up in Brooklyn, New York, Joe turned to sports as a way to bond, advance and stay out of trouble. Sandlot baseball and football were popular pastimes. Growing up, Joe was very active in scouting, and as an Eagle Scout, once served as honor guard to President Franklin Roosevelt. After high school, Joe worked at the Guaranty Trust Company of New York, while also attending night classes at the Community College of New York.
Mr. Ermer was inducted into the Navy in March, 1942. While stationed in Washington, D.C., Joe married his high school sweetheart, Ruth Augustsen. on August 23, 1942. One year later, Joe was assigned to the USS Elmore (APA-42), and was a part of the original crew when the ship was commissioned on August 25, 1943. Joe served as a yeoman and stayed with the ship until May 25, 1945 (a total of 639 days). After being discharged from the Navy, Joe began working for Horn, Ogilvie and Company, an insurance company in New York City, where he remained until his retirement.
Joe and Ruth lived for over 25 years in Bethpage, N.Y., where Joe was active in several organizations, including as the leader of his daughter’s Girl Scout troop. After being seasonal residents of Ruth’s family home in Tunbridge, Vermont for many years, they moved there full-time in 1976. Joe was a member of the Tunbridge Volunteer Fire Department, and attended the Tunbridge Church, where he sang in the choir. Joe remained married to Ruth for more than 40 years, until her death in 1982.
Joe married Marjorie (Marge) Stockwell Nelson in 1984. The couple lived first in Tunbridge, VT, later retiring to warmer winters in Modesto, CA. At the age of 90, Joe bought his first computer, and enjoyed keeping in touch with his extended family and friends through email and Facebook. He was a multitalented artist, a competitive pool player, and is remembered by many for intense games of Parcheesi. His artistic career spanned more than five decades and includes wood work carvings, oil paintings, essays and drawings.
Joseph Ermer passed away on March 28, 2012 at the age of 93. He was predeceased by a brother, Robert (Bob). Joe was survived by his second wife Marjorie, daughters Susan Ermer (Walt) Locke of Washington State, and Eve-Lynne Ermer (Scott Russell) of Tunbridge; grandchildren: Erik Russell of Underhill, Andrea Russell of Rhode Island, Scott Locke of Washington, and Justin Lacche of Oregon, and their families: stepdaughters Kathy (Tony) Rabbiosi and Joyce Nelson (James Petty, Jr.), and stepson Michael (Annie) Nelson, all of California; and six step-grandchildren and their families.
Joe Ermer represented the very best of the Greatest Generation and, after his military career, dedicated each day to bringing joy and laughter to his family and many, many friends.